Background
The author
is a 48 year old male living in
the state of New South Wales, Australia. He has spent the last 30
years involved with church youth groups and boys' sport groups on a
casual basis after normal work hours. His identity is not revealed in
order to protect those who have contributed to the pages on the site.
Normal paid work is an Electrical Engineer.
The church association is with the "Assemblies of
God",
a
Pentecostal Christian Denomination represented worldwide. (The views
expressed on this site are from the author and are not necessarily
those of the AOG church group)
He has no formal qualifications in social
work, but has studied extensively in order to help the youths who came
across his path, many in severe emotional and psychological
circumstances.
He has traveled to Russia five times
on short term church mission trips working in youth summer camps near
St Petersburg and an orphanage in the East of Russia - very rewarding
experiences!
Reasons for this site
One reason for writing this site is he
soon found that some major emotional and behavioral problems with male
youth were alleviated, almost miraculously sometimes, when the young
person learned that what was happening to him was normal development
phases that every male passes through.
Another reason for writing this site is to
alert parents to the different ways boys think these days compared with
the author's teenage days. In a nutshell:
- The
author's generation was largely ignorant about their sexual
development.
- This
generation believes lies about their normal sexual development! They
tend to view everything in relation to "could
this mean I'm gay or a sex maniac" and adopt inappropriate
strategies to cope with their private diagnosis.
A third reason for this site is to counter
some other 'information' sites directed at teenagers on the www. Have
you seen the number of gay sites offering 'impartial' help to
questioning teens?
Have you seen the sites that answer the teenager's questions and then
actively promote sexual relations between children of almost any age?
Plenty of the information out there is loud and
constant and becomes "truth" to our youth because of the repetitive way
it is
presented by the media.
By presenting another viewpoint, the young people
who
access this site
can hopefully see a bigger picture and make more informed decisions on
life matters.
Feedback
and suggestions are welcome on the email address on the navigation
"Contact" link.
Mission Organization
 The
mission organization I work with in Russia is Kids Outreach
International. They organize a very efficient and cost effective form
of short term missionary outreach to underprivileged Russian children.
They have locations in many countries.
Would you like to contribute directly to an
Australian family living in Russia who have set themselves up to help
orphans in Sakhalin (Eastern Russia).
Once orphans turn 15 they generally have to leave
their orphanage. Various studies have shown they mostly turn to crime
and/or prostitution in order to survive. These Australians have opened
up their home to many orphans and ex-orphans - often feeding 25-30 for
each meal. Their dream is to expand the outreach! For more information:
orphanshouse.org
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