This site is for BOYS ONLY!
It's got lots of stuff about what's normal about your body and it tells
you the actual truth, not the crap your friends try and tell you!
(email from 14 year old boy - New Zealand)
Puberty (boy2man changes)
Puberty begins when your body is ready - not when you decide. No one ever
seems to be completely prepared for all that is about to happen during this
time. Learn to accept the changes and the timing of it all - you can't stop the
changes or delay them!
All teenage boys get unwanted erections and worry there is something wrong
with them. Learn to hide them the best you can when out in public!
Wet Dreams, Sexy Dreams
These are really common with teenage boys and a lot of guys worry about what
the dream was about. You can't stop the dream or the wet bed! The nature of the
dream does not mean much so don't read anything into it.
All boys will be able to make a list of unwanted private gay stuff that has
happened in their life by the time they are an adult! The 'list' does not mean
you are gay!
Nearly all boys begin to masturbate regularly during their teenage years.
There is a balance that must be learned to keep this a positive activity to
manage the sexual tension which builds up over time.
All boys, during puberty, get a strong interest in other peoples' bodies.
Lust can't be eliminated and is there to eventually bond you to your lifelong
sexual partner when you marry. In the meantime you need to learn to control
your eyes and direct your sexuality positively.
All boys find a strong attraction to porn during the teenage years. This
desire shows you that things are falling into place ready for your lifelong
sexual partner. You must also learn to control this attraction until you can
share another's body in marriage.
The best "big picture" choice for your life is to be a virgin when you
marry! The choice rests solely with you and you will live with the consequences
of your choice.
Most guys worry their penis is too big or small or thick or thin or straight
or bent or long or short or just plain different. Nearly every guy worries
about this, especially in their teenage years! You are most likely more normal
than you imagine!
About this site
This site is the result of feedback from boys having trouble coming to terms
with their emerging sexuality. You'll find straight talk on tough life issues
with an authority that comes from the thinking of many modern Christian
churches and organizations. I think you will be pleasantly surprised!
One aspect that struck me
about your site was how it resonates the voice of a boy. I feel that what you
write is "true" in the sense that it is neither prettified, nor dramatized or
oversold. I see an honest depiction of a young male.
female youth worker - Europe - anonymity requested
This site contains sexually
explicit language in order to convey factual information and relevant feedback
from other teenagers.
THERE IS NO PORNOGRAPHY ON THIS
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